The seeking soul

Little children, I am with you a little while longer. You will seek Me; and as I said to the Jews, now I also say to you, ‘Where I am going, you cannot come.’ John 13:33 NASB

 

Our soul seeks a Savior, it longs for a relationship with the Lord. Our soul (mind, will and emotions) deeply desires peace of mind, assurance of doing God’s will/purpose and the joy of being unconditionally loved. At creation God breathed life into man and made him a living soul (see Genesis 2:7). 

Thus, we need an ongoing infusion of life from the author and giver of life or we live life in vain. We seek Christ for comfort in our pain and for power to overcome sin, death and the devil. Our soul seeks eternal outcomes.

Beloved Jesus knew the fragile faith of His disciples, so He prepared them for His imminent cross and resurrection. They could not come to Jesus in the parenthesis between His death and rising from the grave. However, once Christ came alive their souls were made alive. The Holy Spirit filled them with hope and holy boldness. Even in the moment of the disciples’ denial, Jesus did not deny them. He knew deep in their souls they wanted to see Him again. Seeking souls find God.

“Now devote your heart and soul to seeking the Lord your God” (1 Chronicles 22:19).

So, how can our souls seek out the things of God? One way is to understand His ways and obey. Like migratory birds moving south for the winter, our saved souls instinctively gravitate toward the warmth of God’s love. If a soulless animal can expose itself to healthy environments, how much more should a human soul? The Holy Spirit is our spiritual sonar that desires to lead our every move. We set our coordinates on Christ and by faith we lock onto Him.

Have you sought the world’s stuff only to reach a disappointing destination? Indeed, we all seek something, but fulfillment is only found from faith in Jesus Christ. Seek God at church and enjoy His presence in praise and worship. Seek the Spirit in prayer, ask for wisdom and discernment and He will reveal the best course of action. Seek your heavenly Father and He will love and support you. Seek Christ for His resurrection power and He will embolden your obedience and grow your faith. Release your soul to seek the things of God and you will find Him faithful.

The word of the Lord

The word of the Lord endures forever.” And this is the word that was preached to you. 1 Peter 1:25

 

What does it mean to get a word from the Lord? It means that God, in His infinite wisdom, personalizes His principles for each of His children. The Bible is a love letter delivered to each disciple of Jesus for his or her unique situation and life. A word from the Lord gives hope in the face of discouragement, wisdom for understanding, and courage to confront injustice. The word of the Lord planted in the human heart are seeds of faith for the soul.

We are blessed when we seek counsel from the wise, but when we receive direction from God in His Word, we can rest secure. The Bible is the baseline for our beliefs and behavior. It is the first and the final say for faith-based Kingdom living. A day without scriptural intake for our spirit is like missing three meals for our body. God’s Word nourishes our soul, is a trailblazer for truth, and leads us into His very best for our life. His Holy Spirit brings to life the pages of His Word in prayer. Study to know the truth, then listen to apply the truth. Scripture gives stamina to our faith.

Beating temptation

Because He himself suffered when He was tempted, He is able to help those who are being tempted. Hebrews 2:18

 

Temptation illustrates our struggle to remain true to God and His will, or to take pleasure in doing life our way. “All Of Grace,” not “I Did It My Way” is a sample epitaph for a loyal disciple of Jesus. Like a faithful spouse who rebuffs the flirtatious overtures of a individual not their own, so we are a faithful bride of Christ when we reject the advances of sin’s attractiveness. It may feel good to our body and emotions to give in, but our soul knows better. It is the superior standard we obey.

Temptation is not a sin, but it can lead to sin. More than likely, as long as we are breathing we will be tempted. Thus, we are wise not to take pleasure in temptation for this is a slippery slope to sin. Why traffic near the edge of sin’s darkness, when we can travel on God’s brightly lit highway of love. The neon signs of sin flash with their dark backdrop promising fun, while leaving undisclosed the cost of capitulation to Christ-less living. Reckless risks lead to regret. Don’t say, ‘It’s just one time,’ or ‘No one will find out.’ Guilty feelings make good guardians.

“For we do not have a high priest who is unable to sympathize with our weaknesses, but we have one who has been tempted in every way, just as we are--yet was without sin” (Hebrews 4:16).

Furthermore, the most effective deterrent to falling into temptation is falling more in love with Jesus. We want to be with Him, because we love Him. We want to please Him, because we love Him. We want to be admired by Him, because we love Him. We want to obey Him, because we love Him. We want to remain faithful to Him, because we love Him. We want to walk with Him and walk away from sin, because we love Him. Our mature and growing love for Jesus leads us away from temptation and into wise choices. Love desires not to disappoint the object of its affection.

So, how do we grow in our love for Christ? Similar to a growing marriage relationship, it takes intentionality. Intentional with our time, so we compare calendars weekly and schedule time to be together. Intentional with our emotions, so we develop skills to better understand each other. Intentional with our intellect, so we learn together. Read the gospels and enter into the story as one of the characters. What do you feel? Ask the Spirit to reveal what you need to know about Jesus. The more you get to know Him, the more you love Him. Temptation melts in fear, in the face of your love for God. When tempted--love for the Lord looks for and finds His way out.

“No temptation has seized you except what is common to man. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can stand up under it” (1 Corinthians 10:13).

Gotta get these gains

But whatever was to my profit I now consider loss for the sake of Christ. What is more, I consider everything a loss compared to the surpassing greatness of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord, for whose sake I have lost all things. I consider them rubbish, that I may gain Christ. Philippians 3:7-8

 

In God’s economy some of our greatest gains come from and with losses. Our family dynamic takes a loss at a wedding as we lose a son or daughter in marriage, yet we gain a daughter-in-love or son-in-love. We lose a corporate job, but gain an opportunity to influence a smaller enterprise for God’s Kingdom. We lose our health, but gain a realization of the brevity and importance of the life we have. We become much more intentional in matters of faith and eternity. We lose an opportunity because we lacked peace, but gain one that excites our imagination.

Beloved what have you lost that needs repair or replacement? If it’s your reputation, lean into the Lord to restore your character. As you walk with Christ in integrity you will gain a good name that is many times more valuable than gold. Maybe you made a hard decision that caused you to lose a long term relationship. You may have gained their respect and one day they may truly desire to know you at a deeper emotional level. God’s gains far exceed our losses.

Furthermore, the surpassing greatness of knowing Christ Jesus as Lord is our greatest gain. We clamor to see celebs, pastors and presidents, while all the while the King of Kings and Lord of Lords kindly waits to love us and spend time in fellowship with us. No need for us to gain access to God. He has given us the full privilege of being with Him and knowing Him anytime, anywhere. No secret service agents to overcome, because the blood of our Savior Jesus has already overcome. By faith we gain God.

What we give up to gain God are trinkets in His Kingdom. We give up the trinket of distrust and  gain trust. We give up the trinket of striving and gain our Savior’s safety, peace and security. We give up the trinket of people’s approval and gain our Father’s warm acceptance, security and compassion. The exchange rate of our culture’s currency offers us losses for our gains, but Christ’s currency gives us gains for our losses, His true riches. What we lose for the Lord is great gain, never to be lost.

God's plan

A man’s mind plans his way, but the Lord directs his steps and makes them sure. Proverbs 16:9, 

 

God places His plan in the heart and mind of man. Indeed, His divine desires are meant to manage the motivations of believers. We can be confident as we walk with Christ that He will fill our conscience with His will, and His course of action. Like a meandering river, we normally make our way through life not knowing for certain what’s around the next bend, but we keep believing in the goodness of God to guide us. We plan and trust God’s hand to point us in the right direction.

So, why plan if the Lord is sovereign, all knowing and all powerful? We plan, and in the process we hope to better understand God’s plan. It is an exercise of faith in our Lord to show us the next step and movement in His will and way. Planning is good stewardship and keeps us from presuming on God’s favor. In a similar way, an earthly father wants to support a son or daughter who seeks to steward their time with a vision for their life, so the Lord wants to resource a prayerful plan.

“For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope” (Jeremiah 29:11).

What in your life needs a plan? Perhaps you settle on a college major, even though you are still unsettled. Healthcare, financial management, relational care, career advancement and family goals all take time to think through and write out the first few next steps. Better to have an imperfect plan than to wait irresponsibly for a perfect plan. We plan the best we can and trust the Holy Spirit with what we don’t understand. Thankfully the Lord makes sure our unsure steps.
 
Furthermore, our Lord will direct our steps after we take the first step of faith. Like a child learning to walk we will stumble and fall, but our loving Father will pick us up and encourage us to continue on in His strength with His guidance through His Spirit. The Holy Spirit can better direct a life actively moving forward by faith, than one passively stuck in fear or apathy. We pray the Spirit reveals His plans while we adjust our plans to His. God can bless a mess, but normally He blesses a plan.

Down yet not out

We are hard pressed on every side, but not crushed; perplexed, but not in despair; persecuted, but not abandoned; struck down, but not destroyed. 2 Corinthians 4:8-9

 

Sometimes life knocks us down. Like a boxer drops to one knee after a punch from his opponent, we can be struck down by insensitive souls or untimely trials. A critical evaluation of our work can feel like a jab to our face. A friend’s decision to walk away from their family is like a kick in the stomach. Financial pressure, relational stress, physical illness and religious persecution can all take a toll on our soul like a hook to the solar plexus. Even if we fall on our face, God’s grace lifts us up. We may be down, but not out.

When we find ourselves down, it means the Lord is up to something. When we are on our backs, we look up to Him for hope. When we are stressed, our Savior gives us a refuge of rest. When we hurt He heals. When we drift, He disciplines. Our heavenly Father does not abandon us when others walk away. Disappointment drags us down toward despair, but Christ lifts us up and repairs our broken heart, vision, and dreams. A transition may feel long, but He grows our faith through it. Down, but not out.

“But by the grace of God I am what I am, and his grace to me was not without effect. No, I worked harder than all of them--yet not I, but the grace of God that was with me” (1 Corinthians 15:10).

Society's mores that once reflected righteousness may give way to unrighteousness, but the Lord still reigns. The Body of Christ may suffer a black eye from our judgmental attitudes and apathy toward sin. But God’s influence has not been extinguished. The church is blemished because it is made up of imperfect people. Its reputation is bruised but the Lord’s reputation is without question. Jesus lifts up His bride, the church, to bring Him glory.

Therefore, we look to the Lord to lift us up. Since God inhabits the praises of His people, we praise Him in the middle of our malaise. As we lift Him up in worship our heavenly Father lifts us up in His love and sweet fellowship. By faith, Christ comforts our downcast soul. Thus, we persevere through trials. We don’t give up, because Jesus lifts us up. We take a step back for Him to prepare our hearts, then we move forward confidently in His strength. Down, but not out.

Transitions

The rest of their brothers (the priests and the Levites and all who had returned from the captivity to Jerusalem) began the work, appointing Levites twenty years of age and older to supervise the building of the house of the Lord.  Ezra 3:8

 

Transitions are hard, even good ones. But sometimes it is time to move out and move on. God may be calling you back to a particular city or town for you to influence old and new friends for Christ. Or He may be calling you to a brand new endeavor full of wonder and risk. Either way, your transition is what is best for His kingdom and for your spiritual growth. Transitions are a time to trust the Lord, His timing, and to live boldly for Him in and through the transition.
 
The goal is to position yourself, with career and family, for the most impact on God’s kingdom, placing you and your family in an environment that will challenge, nurture, mature, and provide opportunity for your spiritual growth and expression of gifting. Yes, pray much and seek wise counsel, but do not let fear of the unknown stifle you. This life is your one opportunity to follow hard after God.
 
“Seek the Lord while he may be found; call on him while he is near” (Isaiah 55:6).
 
Do not let the things of this world paralyze you or cause you to pause. Hesitation can hurt. However, in your zeal, do be sensitive to your loved ones. Make sure to nurture them through the process. Retain Christ as your compass through the transition. He will keep you honest and soften the hearts of those most affected by the move. Do not let the fear of man get you off mission. Rather, let the fear of God lead you to follow His call.
 
Transitions can be exciting. They can keep us young. They move our faith to a whole new level. You could have stayed in your comfort zone with a minimally felt need for God. But now your dependence on Him is daily, real time. You feel and know He is your loving heavenly Father. Your circumstances may or may not get better, but you will.
 
“Now Joseph had been taken down to Egypt…. The Lord was with Joseph and he prospered” (Genesis 39:1–2).
 
Is He leading you to a new city? Hire a realtor. Does He want you to downsize so you can simplify your life? Put up a for sale sign. Does He want you to cap your lifestyle so you can give away more money? Tell your financial advisor. Does He want you to move overseas and train national leaders? Get a passport. Does He want you to reach out to your neighbors? Invite them to dinner. If He wants you, trust Him, and wholeheartedly give yourself God.
 
Divinely orchestrated transitions are like a loyal friend whom you totally trust. See this shift as an asset on heaven’s balance sheet of your life. Ride change like the ocean waves. It may be a little scary or maybe a lot scary, but He is with you. You will crash occasionally, but He will buffer your fall, like resting on a soft, sandy sea bottom. Let this transition lead you closer to God and His will. You will never know exactly what you would have missed if you do not, and you will have few regrets if you do.

Attitude adjustment

For seven days they celebrated with joy the Feast of Unleavened Bread, because the Lord had filled them with joy by changing the attitude of the king of Assyria, so that he assisted them in the work on the house of God, the God of Israel.   Ezra 6:22

 

Attitude is everything; it can lift us up or bring us down. It is a barometer of our heart. If our heart is not right, our attitude will suffer, and life just is not as enjoyable. Attitude is critical because it influences our course of action. If our attitude is negative, our words and behavior will be too. There is a difference in being a realist about negative circumstances, and living with a chronic bad attitude. Naïve are those who ignore warning signs of trouble, and carry on oblivious to the storm clouds of sin.

However, our attitude is rooted in who we are in Christ, there is no need to be fearful, guilty, or insecure. The attitude that Jesus exhibited was one of humility and servant leadership. His attitude reflected submission to His heavenly Father, which resulted in service, generosity, and love for people. Jesus was joyful and hopeful, because He rested in the will of God. Do not allow another's bad attitude to influence yours beloved. Be the attitude influencer instead as you where created to influence the earth and everything in it. Greet a frown with a smile, crush criticism with affirmation, and listen patiently until fury loses its steam. A positive attitude will eventually outlast and overpower a negative one. Most of all, pray for those who thrive on negativity. Pray for them to be set free from their hurt, anger, guilt, and insecurity. God has us in their lives to reflect the love, grace, mercy, forgiveness, and kindness of God to encourage an attitude adjustment through Him.
   
God is the genesis of a right attitude, and He is the right attitude sustainer. He wants His attitude to be our attitude. This is why we need a daily attitude alignment from our heavenly Father. Each day, our attitude gets knocked around and abused by life. If left unattended, our attitude will drift into wrong thinking, harsh words, and bad behavior. Self-pity and anger can begin to replace selflessness and forgiveness. With just a little bit of daily tweaking, our attitude stays in line with His. It is subtle, but sometimes attitudes need to be adjusted moment by moment.
   
Lastly, slow down and pray when you feel your attitude eroding. When you’re in the midst of a bad attitude, don’t make important decisions; the time isn’t right for that. You will regret every decision you make during a time of emotional upheaval. Be patient, and wait until your anger has subsided, your heart is cleansed, and your attitude is objective. God is into attitudes that trust Him and reach out to others with compassion and understanding. Open-minded and reasonable attitudes lead to rich and robust relationships. Anyone can be negative; so don’t be anyone, be different. Allow God to shape your attitude on the anvil of His heart.
   

Do not go swimming in Denial

And do this, understanding the present time: The hour has already come for you to wake up from your slumber, because our salvation is nearer now than when we first believed. Romans 13:11

 

Denial can be good. After a severe loss our mind and emotions cannot handle the onslaught of sorrow, so we don’t feel our severe pain until we are ready. Sometimes, denial can be helpful, but most of the time denial is unhealthy, especially if we deny having any issues with denial. Our delay in acknowledging and accepting the truth on a matter, actually makes matters worse. We may downplay the reality of an illness, a financial problem, a relational fracture or a job at risk, only to be unprepared for a disaster. Denial keeps us from properly preparing for real life issues.

Reality can be a hard teacher. Perhaps it's time to stop giving a college student money because it is funding their addiction. The credit cards need to be cut up for a season because they make compulsive shopping too easy. Abstaining from alcohol or dating might be required because of the disruption your dependence is causing. Unless you and your spouse get professional Christ-centered counseling, separation is on the horizon. Better to embrace reality early and escape denial’s detrimental affect. Ask those who love you most how you may be living in denial.

“But if you harbor bitter envy and selfish ambition in your hearts, do not boast about it or deny the truth” (James 3:14).

How can we help others who struggle with denial? What is our role as a friend or family member? Patience and prayer are necessary as we seek to comfort and care for them. Unless they are on the verge of a life threatening situation, we need to refrain from being too aggressive. But if they are endangering themselves or someone else, an intervention may be required. People they respect can meet with the person in denial. Clearly, lovingly and compassionately share the facts of the situation and provide supportive solutions.

Above all else, make sure you don’t deny the existence of God. He is your personal and loving heavenly Father who wants His very best for you. His son Jesus died and rose from the grave to forgive your sins, giving you eternal life with the Lord. Embrace the reality of Jesus’ resurrection and you will receive the power of the Holy Spirit to overcome the dangers of denial. Walk in the everyday reality of a growing relationship with Christ. He will free you from fear. Yes, the best reality is God’s moment by moment love we experience by grace through faith.

“The fool says in his heart, 'There is no God'" (Psalm 14:1).

Total recall

He gave him the plans of all that the Spirit had put in his mind.  1 Chronicles 28:12

 

The Holy Spirit brings to mind what we need to remember. He has a plan for us to follow. His plans are for our good and what’s best for our entire circle of influence. Miraculously, the Spirit can cut through all the clutter of our concerns and remind us of a simple thought. What may seem an ‘out of the blue’ idea to us, is squarely on the heart of Christ. Thus, we keep an open mind so our Lord can bring to mind His thoughts. Similar to an unused app on a mobile device, the Holy Spirit can retrieve old information in our brain and bring it to the top of our mind.

However, there is an ongoing tension between the preparation required on our part and that which is under the Spirit’s control. Yes, we need to research, plan and prepare. God can bless a mess, but He normally blesses a plan. We must not presume on His favor. But, if we are not careful our thorough plan can become an idol of efficiency and we miss the Spirit’s prompting to adjust as we go. A plan drafted in the safe confines of the general’s tent often unfolds differently in the heat of battle.

“For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways,” declares the Lord” (Isaiah 55:8).

Furthermore, not only does the Holy Spirit remind us of thoughts already embedded in our brain, He also brings new thoughts to mind. Since God’s thoughts are not our thoughts, we are wise to humbly usher into our minds new concepts that challenge our neat categories. Perhaps the Spirit is saying: let your spouse manage the finances, forgive and seek healing from a past hurt, quietly serve others, be generous in giving, or seek out a forgotten friend or family member. Or, get to know someone for a year before you make a significant commitment. God’s thoughts are radically different, hence easily recognized, if we are paying attention. 

Above all, we are wise to keep our mind’s eye on our master Jesus. It may be that He speaks through a rapturous praise song as we lumber through rush hour traffic. A seat on a mossy rock beside a babbling brook may bubble up His love within our soul. He may warn us through a child’s honest question, ‘Why are you sad?’ Thus, we marinate our minds in truth, so the Spirit has a deep reservoir of wisdom to draw from. Scripture reading with a humble heart renews our mind. The Holy Spirit transforms our behavior when we listen to biblical teaching with a teachable spirit. Indeed, the Spirit brings to mind what we need in the moment!

“Those who live according to the flesh have their minds set on what the flesh desires; but those who live in accordance with the Spirit have their minds set on what the Spirit desires.The mind governed by the flesh is death, but the mind governed by the Spirit is life and peace” (Romans 8:5-6).

Brand integrity

A good name is more desirable than great riches; to be esteemed is better than silver or gold. Proverbs 22:1

 

What is my personal and professional brand? Are they the same? Do they align around the glory of God? My brand integrity is based on my promise to be who I claim to be. If I claim to be a person of compassion, do I show up when friends and family are suffering? If my ministry or business promises an excellent product, service, and delivery, do I stand by my professional guarantee? Brand integrity creates value, admiration, and loyalty.

However, if we over promise and under deliver, over time brand loyalty erodes, and once enthusiastic fans defect to a more effective service. For example, well-meaning leaders in the community can overcommit to serve on multiple boards. They then find themselves missing meetings and not engaging in the ethos of the organization. Their personal brand becomes tarnished, reflecting badly on their professional brand.

“Then the Lord said to Satan, ‘Have you considered my servant Job? There is no one on earth like him; he is blameless and upright, a man who fears God and shuns evil. And he still maintains his integrity, though you incited me against him to ruin him without any reason’” (Job 2:3).

So have you defined your personal and professional brand? How are you perceived, and does it align with how you see yourself? What is the Lord’s desire for your branding? Your brand name is what distinguishes you from others who serve in your space. Is your distinctive relational care? If so, continue to build on this personal value with increased attention to those you serve. By God’s grace, honesty is a brand promise we can all become. We say what we do and we do what we say. People can depend on us. We are men and women of our word. Our word is our bond.

Lastly, look for brand integrity in those who represent you in the field, on your staff, and on your board of directors. Do they enhance your brand with their character and commitment, or do they dilute its reputation? It is better to have an empty role than to fill it with the wrong person. Do not be in a rush to grow your organization beyond its brand integrity. A good name at home and work is the brand that gives God the glory!

“Let love and faithfulness never leave you; bind them around your neck, write them on the tablet of your heart. Then you will win favor and a good name in the sight of God and man” (Proverbs 3:3–4). 

Covenant with my eyes

I made a covenant with my eyes not to look lustfully at a girl. Job 31:1

 

Pure eyes are a priority for a disciple of Jesus Christ. Eyes are highly regarded because they can be an evangelist for good or bad. When locked onto lust, they are relentless in their pursuit of sin. Like a heat-seeking missile, they will accelerate their course until they reach their destination of destruction. Eyes are like missiles, needing guidance from God, not from a hot heart. Misguided eyes can easily choose the path of pornography and become married to their emotional impulses. Misguided eyes can lead a person to be so preoccupied with destructive behavior that he or she becomes an embarrassment to themselves and a disgrace to others.
   
God takes seriously the stewardship of sight, but like any of His great blessings, eyes are meant for good. It is good to gaze at God’s creation in all of its splendor and glory. How beautiful is the rush of a crystal-clear waterfall as it rushes over moss-covered rocks into a quiet reflecting pool at the bottom of its crashing course. This is a magnificent expression for our eyesight. Eyes are meant to enjoy beauty, not exploit it.

If you have an eye for art and interior design, you are blessed indeed. God has given you perspective and creativity that most lack. Do not expose your eyes to everything. Of course, they cannot be sheltered from all sin. Eyes are not designed to be reclusive, purposefully blind to the outside world. However, eyes are meant to be respectful of their Creator. Eyes are avenues for good or bad. Jesus said, “The eye is the lamp of the body. If your eyes are good, your whole body will be full of light” (Matthew 6:22).
   
When you covenant with your eyes, you covenant with your Creator. Your Creator, God, longs to guide your eyes, so trust as you follow God with your eyes. He is a guide who leads with caution and adventure. He will guide you toward love instead of lust. He will guide you into contentment instead of discontent. When you see the material stuff of others, you will thank God on their behalf, not coveting with your eyes. He will guide you into generosity instead of greed. The more you have, the more you will give. When you see the needs of others, you will respond generously, whether you have God-blessed abundance or modest means.

You are sometimes totally blind to bad choices that lurk ahead. But because you have made a covenant with your eyes, your Creator will see you through vulnerable times. Moreover, He takes your contractual agreement with your eyes to heart. Your responsibility in this binding contract is to make wise choices. Avoid exposing your eyes to enticing and erotic images. Your covenant requires you to inform others of your propensities for temptation. Do not traffic alone in your vulnerable places. God’s covenants have restrictions and requirements, but all for your good.

Having a covenant with your eyes liberates you from lust and any other addictive eye candy. Make a contract with your eyes, then trust God to guide you away from gullibility into goodness, so you are not blind to the ways of the Lord. Understand and apply the terms of your eyes’ covenant. God’s terms provide boundaries with radical freedom. Keep eye contact with God and you will be free indeed.

Value people

So from now on we regard no one from a worldly point of view. Though we once regarded Christ in this way, we do so no longer. 2 Corinthians 5:16

People are the pinnacle of God’s creation. Because He highly regards His image bearers, He sent His son Jesus to earth as a love offering for our sin. Christ’s death on the cross emanated from His compassion and love. It delivers all who believe from condemnation. Furthermore, from the beginning the Lord gave us dominion over His creation. Management/stewardship of the environment is under the canopy of our control. God’s gifts of salvation and supervision to people shows His incredibly high opinion of us. The Lord loves and respects His people.

Therefore, we have a choice. We either see people compassionately, as our Lord's creation, or we view them cynically, as messy, needy people. An individual can be an object of our scorn or someone who needs our prayers. Everyone’s story needs to be shared with someone who cares.  Do I contact someone just to check on them or because I need something from them? We value others when we value who they are.  Their ideas and opinions matter to us.

“Now this is our boast: Our conscience testifies that we have conducted ourselves in the world, and especially in our relations with you, with integrity and godly sincerity. We have done so, relying not on worldly wisdom but on God’s grace” (2 Corinthians 1:12).

Do those closest to us feel valued or used? Do we listen to what others think more than we favor our own thoughts? Sometimes an introverted child or work associate gets lost in the noise of what others are saying. Having patience to prod or pull from them what they have to offer is often worthwhile and valuable.  We all have occasion to protect the quiet one from the verbally dominant extrovert. We value all temperaments when we ask for all opinions.

A worldly point of view factors out faith in Jesus Christ and the wisdom of God. There is no regard for the work of the Spirit, only the work of what can be done in our own strength. But a spiritual point of view trusts our Lord’s involvement behind the scenes. We value above all what He thinks and how He is leading our lives. Thus, we pause and pray. We listen for His loving affirmation and His gentle correction. What God says and expects matters most. We value His opinion of others over our own, so we view them as His creation in need of love.

“In humility value others above yourselves” (Philippians 2:3).

Joy wins

Now is your time of grief, but I will see you again and you will rejoice, and no one will take away your joy. John 16:22

 

Joy wins. Sorrow may reign in the short-term, but long-term joy is victorious. Sin may have delayed a blessing, but eventually joy wins with a shout of gratitude. Death brings grief, only to be swallowed into an everlasting environment where joy never ceases to win. The path of joy is not without pain, but the intensity of the hurt only increases the feelings of joy once the pain has passed. Joy wins for all who follow Jesus. Yes, Jesus brings joy to a life loved by Him!

Like our salvation in Christ, once joy lodges in the heart of a believer no one can steal it away. Satan tries to talk us into forgetting God’s faithfulness. Other people stuck in a joyless cycle may not receive joy’s glow from our face, joy’s encouragement from our lips or joy’s grace from our heart. Indeed in Christ, we have an infinite supply of joy to share, but in our flesh we can quickly lose our joy. So, be joyful in Jesus. When another’s misery invites  your accompaniment, don’t RSVP!

“Splendor and majesty are before him; strength and joy in his dwelling place.” (1 Chronicles 16:27).

What tempts you to lose your joy? Who threatens to take away your joy? If external conditions (people, places and things) are necessary to bring us joy, when they are removed our joy goes with them. However, if our joy comes from the internal rest of our soul in our Savior Jesus then our joy is secure, not at any real risk. Indeed, we romance our relationship with God only to realize a greater joy we never knew existed. A heart captured by Christ enjoys deep abiding joy!

Moreover, we find abiding joy by becoming who our heavenly Father made us to be. We lose our joy when we try to become who someone else wants us to be. But we are supernaturally joyful when we exercise our unique giftedness, energized by the Holy Spirit. Joy wins when our life aligns around Almighty God’s game plan. Trust the Lord and make time to think and be creative. Enjoy how the Lord has made you and  joy will never cease. Be a joyful winner in Him!

“We will shout for joy when you are victorious and will lift up our banners in the name of our God. May the LORD grant all your requests” (Psalm 20:5).

Succession planning

Elijah said to Elisha, “‘Tell me what I can do for you before I am taken from you?’ ‘Let me inherit a double portion of your spirit,’” Elisha replied. 2 Kings 2:9

 

Succession planning is an opportunity to steward well a founder’s lifetime of work, developing an organization’s ongoing effectiveness. Like death, steps of succession do not solicit ongoing conversation, unless a process is in place to implement a prayerful plan. Important questions are, “How can the founder show good faith that they hold the enterprise with an open hand?” “Should the founder be compensated after they transition out of their executive role?” “How will the board stay engaged in the succession planning process?” Yes, succession matters.

Founders who hold an open hand trust the Lord as the owner of the organization. Hence, he or she is not necessary to carry on a Christ-centered culture. Lord willing, He will sustain the work in His way. Mature leaders also place their security and identity in Jesus, not in their jobs. They understand their ultimate value is not measured by what they do, but by who they are. Leaders who are secure in the Lord, see globally how God brings in those best for the organization’s health.

“To Titus, my true son in our common faith” (Titus 1:4).

Who are you raising up to take the team to the next level? Are you intentional in your prayers for the profile of the person to take your place? We are not objective enough in our discernment to pick the most effective successor without the input of other wise advisors. Thus, we submit to the wisdom and accountability of the board to bring about the best outcome. Succession done well can gel the team and infuse excitement in anticipation of God’s choice. It is a journey of faith.

Therefore, all in charge wisely look to Christ for His choice. Perhaps the requirement is to compare and contrast three excellent candidates. We learn a lot when we compare the strengths and weaknesses of very competent people. Moreover, it may be a worthy strategy to watch potential successors over the course of a year of work within the organization. Assign them to various departments and then assess their skills and abilities to work with the team. Also, take a prospective successor and their spouse to dinner. Observe how they treat their sweetheart and the server. Their attitude in an informal environment is an indicator of their real self. Most of all, look to the Spirit to confirm His person. His peace is preeminent in pronouncing the next leader!

“There is no wisdom, no insight, no plan that can succeed against the Lord” (Proverbs 21:30)